Life Is Brutal, Might As Well Die!
Papaadmin June 8th, 2007 | Viewed 561 views
Once again, my friend Criz Lai made me realized, Life Is Brutal, Might As Well We Commit Suicide and Die!. Interesting isn’t it? Go have a look and read why he said like that. Genuinely Comment there and then come back here and read my response to his posting 
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Have you done reading his Nice View down there! Part 1 and It is really nice down there Part 2. Are you sure? OK. Now you are a better person just by reading all that. Huh, not yet? Go, read again
I can really, really understand the feeling, the agony he had gone through. As a matter of fact, I would definitely chose the same way to solve all that dilemma. What about you all? Would you just throw yourself down there and be over about it. After all, it is really a painful feeling. Would you get the shortest, quickest remedy to that by taking out yourself physically? Physically like better die than be hurtful. If you still blur, go ahead, read again Criz’s here.
But wait? Do not get me wrong. He does not ask you to commit suicide and I definitely do not encourage you to do so. What we or me referring to is how you handle such situation. Actually, it is the bad memory that need to commit suicide in yourselves. Forget and forgive. Let Bygone be Bygone. Somethimes hard, but we need to do it. Death is not the only Escape. Poetically mentioned but still it is a serious matter. Again, Death is not the way out! Period.
As Criz mentioned in the Part 2, we need others to cheer us up and to tell us, or should i say, shake us loose, from the dark memory. If can, we need others to help us to do reformatting. Erase the part of that bad dark memory in our brain. we can’t do this alone. Definitely not alone. You can try but you will not achieve it. Might as well jump from that roof. Seriously. Like the walking skeleton. You may be alive but no Life.
Here Criz say it nicely and wonderfully and right smack to the point:
Let someone know your pain
For a few moments, let someone help carry your pain
Someone who is there because they care enough to help a stranger in need
Because they know, or they have seen
From someone they know, or somewhere they have been
That your life may be in danger and there is nothing they can say
To really make that pain go away
But they are there for you even so
Because somehow they know
That somehow, some way
They can help you find the strength to live another day
You own happiness is all that matters. Life is a gamble. Our own cycle of life is like the rolling wheel. You may be down there now, like face down, got dirty, splashed by the smelly dog leftovers, with all the rough and tumbles of the road. But bear in mind, it is just temporary. There is actually a better way up there with smooth asphalt … if only we continue. Yes, if only we continue to force our self to hang on and open our eyes wide and just pull through to face forward. Life is what we perceive it to be. We, the only decision maker here. Without realizing, we already up there. clearer and cleaner view. You, Your Own Destiny.
With this I end, Thanks Criz for making me realize that Life is not that all Bad. It is only bad when we think it is bad. To All My Friends who is always there for me, like Azmeen, Kay Kastum, Cindy, Jewelle from Brunei, Yvonne, Gallivanter, Ann of meowi, Sweetpea, Kuanhoong and the rest of mommies, I thank you all for always there to cheer me up with all your comments. Julian Morin, how can I forget you from Sabah too ;). Hot female bloggers :- Minny and HFB Annna, I remember you too. Yes, Sasha, Janicepa, The Lady Mummy, Mami Bok, Huisia and latest Jamy aka KayaTan, MommiBee from Sydney and Angeleyes. Thanks for cheering me all this while. If i forgot anyone, please let me know. I know the above names are always here to cheer me either through the comment box or the messenger . If there’s any left out, please scold me. Yes, just scold me, like “Hey, Papa, where’s my name??? How can you forgot about me?” I probably too stress to meet all the demands 
I am really sorry. Scold me ok
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June 8th, 2007 at 1:53 pm
Of course life is brutal! Just because of a slight mistake in choice of words I was fired like hell. Hahaha. Anyway I wanna invite you to a bloggers’ gathering, you can check my site out for information. Till then, good luck in ya life!
June 8th, 2007 at 2:04 pm
Cedric: Yea, I heard and read about it. So sorry you got caught in that misunderstanding. I hope u ok now.. well you should. Don’t go suicide.. hahaha. Good luck to you too
I’ve checked the Orient Voice. You all go enjoy ok.
June 8th, 2007 at 2:17 pm
aisay papa! you made my day by saying i made your day. since you made my day, i feel happy and so i won’t bludgeon anyone at home, and they will be happy too.
isn’t affection contagious?
June 8th, 2007 at 2:17 pm
Haha…It looks as if I am your guest blogger now. Let me count how many times you have advertise me for the past one month. Hmmm…one for the Cikgu (as kuanhoong always call me), one for that and one for this. Gosh…3 in a month? Thanks for the mention again, again and again. I an honoured
Anyway, I am happy to share my experiences in order to enlighten people on the different perspective of life. Life is a lie if we set our mind to think so. It’s excuses that lead us to ruin our lives. Most people does not have the courage to CHANGE for the better, thus you can see how bad the world has turned out to be.
June 8th, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Papajoneh, there’s only ONE way to stop people from making that “jump”, get them to listen to Bon Jovi music (positive vibes) and they will understand that there’s so much more in life to see.
June 8th, 2007 at 4:49 pm
*baru wake up.. and still blur blur ** papa.. why i see my name there ?? apasal ???
Dont.. dont… commit.. cheer up… “everysky got silver lining.. ” errrr.. did i get it correct ?? did it pass the message.. aiya.. “twin is coming , twin is coming… papa jon … papa jon.. “
June 8th, 2007 at 5:43 pm
wa i see my name there also. at least sashablablabla is not full of craps and it did something good aLSO.
June 8th, 2007 at 6:06 pm
If life was something simple, everyone would have become millionaires now would we?
If you fall, dust yourself and continue your journey. The problem starts when you fall and you never get up.!
June 8th, 2007 at 7:19 pm
Aiya that Cikgu Criz should blog about happy things in life.
Reading his blog is dead serious, not good for health
Haha, Thanks for mentioning my name too
June 9th, 2007 at 12:08 am
kuanhoong: you want happiness? I’ll give you happiness in a moment
June 9th, 2007 at 5:06 am
This is true indeed. When I was back in Malaysia the other day, I have heard of news about someone who committed suicide and it was sad to hear that this happened to a very YOUNG girl.
I am still shock of the incident till now. If this can affect me much.. imagine what this can do to the family concerned.
June 10th, 2007 at 1:22 am
I was fired because I was talking to a friend abt the company issue when my director intercept cell phone call when he happened to stumble on my conversation. Iff that happened in America, I would have sued him first for invasion of my privacy , the 1st amendment of US constitution, the right of individual. But too bad, it was in Malaysia, mana ada individual rights, Nonsense man, company , boss can do whatever they want. Not anymore for me now, I am an American now, I talk abt individual rights, aisey !
When I was in Malaysia end of 2006, I was extremely shaken by the news of the 3 boys whom the father killed before he committed suicide. I thought goodness me, that $ he lost was peanut , less than US$50k, we are talking abt peanut $ with 4 person lives ! If only he has contacted me or any adoption agencies in US, he could easily get those boys adopted instead of killing them.
A lot of times , available resources, support system are very important for any problems we face.
I have been to that road and I knew how it is.
I sincerely think the best way to avoid commit suicide is to talk to someone u can trust. If it is financial issue, there is alway ways to raise funds. If it is health issue, there are a lot of places to seek health. And if it emotional issues, find someone who has gone through the road.
I do not believe life is a gamble. Life has many guide maps, it is up to us to find it. I do not think one should go on living life without a compass !
But, I personally think the word of God and HIS grace are my surviving tools.
Jamy
June 10th, 2007 at 1:53 am
Jamy: I love your comment. Thanks. That comment deserved to be blog posted. Thanks. And yes, I do believe everyone should have their own compass. Mine is simple, To give the best to my family, my children and last but not least, to myself.
Even by staying up late like this, I actually doing it for them. I need to give this blog a life.
Thanks Jamy.
June 10th, 2007 at 3:41 am
PapaJohen, u are a good husband and father.
Cheers !
thats new: “PapaJohen”.. I probably name my coming baby that name…hahahha
June 10th, 2007 at 3:42 am
KH, leave Criz alone ! :)-
June 10th, 2007 at 3:46 am
Jamy: no no no…I love KH disturb me more..haha
June 10th, 2007 at 4:57 am
Mabuk say kah , sorry PJ, easier lah not need write so long and prevent mistake, ha ha ha .
Criz, so u are a sadistic/masochis ? Aiya, scary man !