How to treat a very demanding son? I wish the question can be any easier than this. I have no idea too. I usually spoil my son anyway. Whatever they asked, I normally just give it, in fact I decided to buy the toy well before he asked me. I told you earlier, I am spoiling my son. I wonder I will do it again for my twins? Wow.

Anyway, see here Josh playing on one of his favorite game, Sherlock Holmes. Does he really use his thinking side brain to solve the puzzle?

Here you can see he is playing the counter strike 2(CS2). Yes, he can play it better than my colleague! However, the one thing I don’t like when he’s playing this game is that he is always choose the terrorist and he always killed his teammate. I cannot remember how many times I heard the the computer voice saying - “Hey, what are you doing! I am your friend!”. Most of the time I argued and told him not to kill his friend. Guess what his answer, “Yes kill friend, myJosh wants friend’s machine gun”. Duhh. Sometimes, I have enough of his attitude. I just lift him up from the chair and switch off the computer. I told him, no computer game until you learn how to treat good your friend. He cries afterward, obviously.

Well check this shot again.

He is back and he is playing his other favorite game, the Adventure Rabbit. He said that playing Papa’s computer is much nicer than playing with the big computer. I asked why and guess what he said? He said, “See, Papa own computer screen - nice, big!”. He was referring to the lcd monitor of course. My laptop has the higher resolution compares to the desktop computer and he insisted I should change the desktop “big computer” monitor to something like my laptop. And guess what I would do? I am giving you a hint here. I want him to like the desktop PC so that my laptop is free and just for me.

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Let me start by saying Happy 50th Merdeka Day to all Malaysian. I am so happy that I am still alive to say it and I hope I will still be alive by tomorrow the official National Day, 31st August 2007. It is indeed a very special day for us all. I Love You Malaysia!

The month of August really means so much to me especially this year. With the birth of my baby twins last 10th August, celebrating Merdeka Day is even sweeter and worth all the pains. Like now, taking care of my babies, yes, it is 3:30 am now but I am so excited. I even put flags on my national car, Proton Iswara, ‘yesternight’ at around 8pm to show my patriotism to the country.

picture taken early this morning, belum tidur lagi.. aiiiyaaahhhh

To make this event meaningful, especially if you are a Malaysian blogger, may I suggest all of us to display this awesome Wordpress logo.

Flickr url http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1190/1254176033_8bad2a4b1f_o.jpg

Thanks to Avijit from Enveluv.com for taking his time to create this awesome logo design for us all. Please check his place for variety of design. If you are not using Wordpress, I’m so sorry for you. However, you can still display it just for the sake of Malaysia. Why not, right?

*** I cannot go to sleep now - I noticed the Road Tax expiring tomorrow! Alamak, OMG! Tomorrow public holiday! Need to do it now, if not “kena lagi!”. So see you all when I’m back and still awake LOL. For info, been awake since yesterday’s 7am!

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Yes, my son Josh is now confirmed triple 3 of age: 3 years, 3 months and 3 days old today as at 29 August 2007. Check here the Time Chart specific for himself.

More picture after this. For now, I need to sleep. So tired. The babies are sleeping now so I better take my rest too. Pictures will be under this paragraph later on.

I seldom read newspaper just simply most of the contents are bad, negative and politics. I have this belief that if its important, urgent enough, you will know instantly. Yeah.. from your friends, neighbours, from the radio and even of course from the Internet. However, just now, since I am working in the office which I hate very much when I should be at home with my wife and children, I have to open the paper to check for our special draw yesterday’s STC 4D result whether match or not.
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OK, let see this Time Chart for my baby twins, Preston and Presley or whatever you call the time chart is from lilipie.com. No, this is not a sponsored posting. I found this tool very helpful especially when you go online most of the time, like me. Well, when I’m at work lah. When at home, no chance and no time to surf.

Even my wife ask me, “Hey Dear, how many days more? Can you check it from your blog.”

I asked back, “Why?”

She answered, “The tummy too big already. Are you sure more than one month to due date?”

The due date was actually on 26th Sept. 2007 but somehow as you probably have known by now, the twins decided to come earlier as the time chart shown below.

This is how old the twins now calculating from 10th August, 2007 up to now, as you’re reading this post.

Now here the previous time chart for delivery. As at present [28 August], the twins are only at its 35 weeks and 29 more days to go. Interesting indeed.

However, I am glad its all over. I can’t stand the stress and nervousness inside of me during the delivery. I was tired emotionally. Thank GOD my wife so strong. Everything done smoothly even though Presley came after 30 minutes later. Phheewww.

See, the twins crying again - never get them smiling

Babies now, both from drinking only 25ml to 100ml each of them in just 2 weeks. Baby Preston is still the “manja” boy here. He stop crying only when I pick him up. Presley is the starring here. Cool and collected. Aissyehhhh man. LOL.

I will post later why I need new baby cot For now.. back to work.

** someone should sponsor me $10. I need them.

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Nowadays insurance plays an important role in our lives. Why do I say like that? Simply because with insurance we feel safe in the sense that we are covered for the amount we spend on properties or as for our life, it is a small token to be given to our children when I no longer around. I am in no authority or definitely not an expert in any insurance. Nevertheless, what I am going to share here based solely on my experience.
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Now this is not a sponsored posting, I wish I get paid though but not. Jasmine Natasha the name, Kinkyjasmines the blog. Now, she is my internet friend and I think helping friend is one thing everyone should do to each other. So here I am promoting her Kota Kinabalu Largest Prom Night that is going to be held at Beverly Hotel on 12th December, 2007.

For more detail, just click this links:

1. http://kinkyjasmines.wordpress.com/2007-prom-night/
2. http://teenroyals.livejournal.com

Be warned, she is one hot cute girl and I have nothing against that

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Replying to post What do I miss most during and after pregnancy. Sorry, this is a very late reply. I hope you all understand me. Do not worry, I will remember each and everyone of you. Thanks and to all newcomer here, welcome but totally sorry for the delay in replying and updating this blog.

Here my replies:
@Azmeen -

Personally, I’m not a superstitious person but I think some pantangs are based on facts and are actually good to adhere to.

I also think that it’s good for you to lay off the RC nitro stuff for the time being. With the twins around, I doubt that you can focus on both your kids and the RC truggies at the same time.

Something has got to give, and I’m sure you know which

It’ll just be temporary so… sabarlah bah

Thanks Azmeen. Yeah have to be patient here. Did once during Josh, will do it again for this 2P twins.

@flsam -

This is just temporary, I agreed with Azmeen. When your son are older, you can all the time. Sometime, we have to make some sacrifices. What more your twins identical sons will need your attention more than anything else. Family come fist.

flsam, thanks and yes temporary only.. family come first of course. Just happen that this temporary thing is not getting over in near future… i suspect longer than my Josh time.. well of courselah, double everything.

@Shemah -

I understand how you might be feeling. I assume my husband feels the same way too. I know that he, just like you, has his other passions but would never complain about sacrificing it for us. Don’t worry, you’ll get your chance. Maybe not now, but eventually you will.

Still haven’t got maid?? I’m still looking..

Thanks Shemah for understanding. Coming from a mother, I really appreciate your comment. And yes, sadly, no maid yet. So so “susah” life now and damn it i’m working now.

@Min -

Hi! Hang in there, I’m sure your sacrifices brings about alot of joy and happiness… this is just a temporary phrase, it will pass soon! once your twins grow older, then u’ll be able to enjoy playing games with them etc etc

Min, thanks I will definitely enjoying more when they’ve grown up. games, football, computer… everything… i hope i stay longer to enjoy all this later on.

@massy -

i got wedding invitation next month XD

Wedding again…. see u too massy [but not you right ]

@Yvonne -

So how’s life being a new dad to a pair of twins? dont sigh la.. I’m sure HuiSia will understand. The time with your little ones and your wife is important~~~ Congrats again~

Thanks Yvonne. Congrats on your move to Singapore

@aryst -

Yep…family come first…one thing that I’ve limited the time to do is playing games…man, I loves playing computer games…now, kena kurang2…sekejap istri panggil…sekejap anak minta attention..how to play games like that?…Hujung2, main selepas dorang tido but blogging mo taruk mana?…that is my dilemma now…I chose blogging coz I’m addicted to blog… tapi sekarang very busy…update blog pun susah…reply comment boleh la…

Thanks aryst - see you too busy. but as always, family come first. just happen mine double in everything.. stress level, headache, not enough sleep .. etc.. everything… but all for the family.. and its fun sometimes to change lampin and feed the babies milk.

@1+2 mom -

After be parents we have to give out something, like me. I like reading so much but with them i really have no time to read. They will keep calling me to do this and that, now if i have time i’ll take it to read blog or blog hop..haha..hobbie change jor.

1+2 mom - hobby change indeed. Hahhaa. Yeah, parents have to give out something else in order to get something back from your family. Priority priority. I love to read too. I always carry my computer, rc nitro mag beside me, near the babies cot. LOL.

@jacss -

i absolutely udrstd yr “missing” feelings!
we all been thru that…. as human are ‘greedy’ in nature but thank god u r wise & responsible, knowing what to prioritise, praise u !!
my 2 cents would be to enjoy & treasure these moments, time passes with a blink of eyes!!
i regret started blogging so late…….missed blogging abt their first 3 years and i SUPER missed their baby times now !!
dun worry, time will heal everything !!

thanks jacss - i also regret started blogging later.. but becoz of my 1st son i buy my laptop to find the extra money thru internet. Family always come first… whatever the other option… the only way thanks again.

@Annie Q -

I understand how u feel, because i also gone through that, but ur wife lucky, got a understanding hub to help her. Me if w/o maid no one is helping me. Even my hub he can have his normal activities as usual.And yet i have to sacrify my “leisure” and stay at home to take care the boys. So u’re not alone!

Annie Q - I have no maid too and parents too old to help… so life is tough..really tough now. Now im working, i hate every minutes without them. I already missing the babies cries and my Josh begging. I am not that good ‘hubby’ too. Deep inside, i just wanna run away and be with myself…. but of coz… that will never happen.. wife too good for me to ignore her
Thanks for sharing that Annie. Appreciate it much.

@hcfoo -

I think it’s better to follow all the pantang larang rather than ignoring them. So how’s life with a new born baby? Papa, I’m sure u enjoy changing diapers, feeding milk, etc

hcfoo! Miss you around. Sorry for the long pause to your blog. Thanks for dropping by here again. Life is getting tougher each day but seeing my babies getting stronger each day and sometimes smiling back at me… makes my sacrifice all worthy. Yes, im enjoying changing diapers, feeding and the most of all, carrying them around and trying to chat with them.. hahahhaa.

Friends and visitors, thanks for the encouragement and the best wishes. I will update this blog with whats happening with my life as new papa again [to those who wanna knowlah ]; and yes, lesser sponsored posting… but just for info, most of the paid posting are real stories that happened to me. I hope no one will go away knowing I’m posting sponsored links. I have like 18 opps, tasks to do as at now. All near due date and some still there eventhough expired.

However, on the other hand, I promise I will make them lesser. keeping friends happy are always better than making enemy. So, hang around ok. Do give me feedback on what you think I should do. As always, friends’ comments appreciated here

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