Replying to post What do I miss most during and after pregnancy. Sorry, this is a very late reply. I hope you all understand me. Do not worry, I will remember each and everyone of you. Thanks and to all newcomer here, welcome but totally sorry for the delay in replying and updating this blog.

Here my replies:
@Azmeen -

Personally, I’m not a superstitious person but I think some pantangs are based on facts and are actually good to adhere to.

I also think that it’s good for you to lay off the RC nitro stuff for the time being. With the twins around, I doubt that you can focus on both your kids and the RC truggies at the same time.

Something has got to give, and I’m sure you know which

It’ll just be temporary so… sabarlah bah

Thanks Azmeen. Yeah have to be patient here. Did once during Josh, will do it again for this 2P twins.

@flsam -

This is just temporary, I agreed with Azmeen. When your son are older, you can all the time. Sometime, we have to make some sacrifices. What more your twins identical sons will need your attention more than anything else. Family come fist.

flsam, thanks and yes temporary only.. family come first of course. Just happen that this temporary thing is not getting over in near future… i suspect longer than my Josh time.. well of courselah, double everything.

@Shemah -

I understand how you might be feeling. I assume my husband feels the same way too. I know that he, just like you, has his other passions but would never complain about sacrificing it for us. Don’t worry, you’ll get your chance. Maybe not now, but eventually you will.

Still haven’t got maid?? I’m still looking..

Thanks Shemah for understanding. Coming from a mother, I really appreciate your comment. And yes, sadly, no maid yet. So so “susah” life now and damn it i’m working now.

@Min -

Hi! Hang in there, I’m sure your sacrifices brings about alot of joy and happiness… this is just a temporary phrase, it will pass soon! once your twins grow older, then u’ll be able to enjoy playing games with them etc etc

Min, thanks I will definitely enjoying more when they’ve grown up. games, football, computer… everything… i hope i stay longer to enjoy all this later on.

@massy -

i got wedding invitation next month XD

Wedding again…. see u too massy [but not you right ]

@Yvonne -

So how’s life being a new dad to a pair of twins? dont sigh la.. I’m sure HuiSia will understand. The time with your little ones and your wife is important~~~ Congrats again~

Thanks Yvonne. Congrats on your move to Singapore

@aryst -

Yep…family come first…one thing that I’ve limited the time to do is playing games…man, I loves playing computer games…now, kena kurang2…sekejap istri panggil…sekejap anak minta attention..how to play games like that?…Hujung2, main selepas dorang tido but blogging mo taruk mana?…that is my dilemma now…I chose blogging coz I’m addicted to blog… tapi sekarang very busy…update blog pun susah…reply comment boleh la…

Thanks aryst - see you too busy. but as always, family come first. just happen mine double in everything.. stress level, headache, not enough sleep .. etc.. everything… but all for the family.. and its fun sometimes to change lampin and feed the babies milk.

@1+2 mom -

After be parents we have to give out something, like me. I like reading so much but with them i really have no time to read. They will keep calling me to do this and that, now if i have time i’ll take it to read blog or blog hop..haha..hobbie change jor.

1+2 mom - hobby change indeed. Hahhaa. Yeah, parents have to give out something else in order to get something back from your family. Priority priority. I love to read too. I always carry my computer, rc nitro mag beside me, near the babies cot. LOL.

@jacss -

i absolutely udrstd yr “missing” feelings!
we all been thru that…. as human are ‘greedy’ in nature but thank god u r wise & responsible, knowing what to prioritise, praise u !!
my 2 cents would be to enjoy & treasure these moments, time passes with a blink of eyes!!
i regret started blogging so late…….missed blogging abt their first 3 years and i SUPER missed their baby times now !!
dun worry, time will heal everything !!

thanks jacss - i also regret started blogging later.. but becoz of my 1st son i buy my laptop to find the extra money thru internet. Family always come first… whatever the other option… the only way thanks again.

@Annie Q -

I understand how u feel, because i also gone through that, but ur wife lucky, got a understanding hub to help her. Me if w/o maid no one is helping me. Even my hub he can have his normal activities as usual.And yet i have to sacrify my “leisure” and stay at home to take care the boys. So u’re not alone!

Annie Q - I have no maid too and parents too old to help… so life is tough..really tough now. Now im working, i hate every minutes without them. I already missing the babies cries and my Josh begging. I am not that good ‘hubby’ too. Deep inside, i just wanna run away and be with myself…. but of coz… that will never happen.. wife too good for me to ignore her
Thanks for sharing that Annie. Appreciate it much.

@hcfoo -

I think it’s better to follow all the pantang larang rather than ignoring them. So how’s life with a new born baby? Papa, I’m sure u enjoy changing diapers, feeding milk, etc

hcfoo! Miss you around. Sorry for the long pause to your blog. Thanks for dropping by here again. Life is getting tougher each day but seeing my babies getting stronger each day and sometimes smiling back at me… makes my sacrifice all worthy. Yes, im enjoying changing diapers, feeding and the most of all, carrying them around and trying to chat with them.. hahahhaa.

Friends and visitors, thanks for the encouragement and the best wishes. I will update this blog with whats happening with my life as new papa again [to those who wanna knowlah ]; and yes, lesser sponsored posting… but just for info, most of the paid posting are real stories that happened to me. I hope no one will go away knowing I’m posting sponsored links. I have like 18 opps, tasks to do as at now. All near due date and some still there eventhough expired.

However, on the other hand, I promise I will make them lesser. keeping friends happy are always better than making enemy. So, hang around ok. Do give me feedback on what you think I should do. As always, friends’ comments appreciated here

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