Replies that you all have been waiting for! Hahaha. Just kidding you there. I feel good this morning so I decided to reply my one-week abandoned old post [tag]I hate working on weekend[/tag]. It is now at 1am and babies are sleeping except myJosh besides me. Yeah, he’s indeed my friend for life

Sorry for the late replies.

@Bent –

hahaha.. you kid so cute..so why you work for just 2 hours? be patient..

Bent – I was on shift.

@Azmeen –

Yep, it’s hard to reason with kids when they’re Josh’s age. I am blessed that my son is very understanding for a four year old.

I must have done something right in my life to deserve him.

Anyway, I think it’s pretty much an adjusting process and Josh haven’t got the bearings 100% correct yet, but I think it’s a matter of time anyway. If you ask me, I’d start talking about school with him from now on.

Tell him how it’s a nice place to meet friends, play fun games and learn new things. Tell him that it’s the best place for children. Tell him that you’d love to send him to school, but he must prove himself worthy of being a scholar first.

Tell him that scholars are responsible, and that if he can’t be more responsible towards his brothers, how can he go to school?

It helps if you can show really fun school scenes on TV, maybe on Playhouse Disney Channel or some really nice non-cartoon kids show.

Azmeen – Thanks for the advice. I did talk to him about all those things you said.. but he is not the typical “Yes, daddy, I listen to whatever you said 3 years old kid”.
I think I have done right too to deserve myJosh. He already can use computer on his own while most kids cannot.

@1+2 mom –

Poor daddy, hope it just temporary that Josh being naughty. I think he need both of parents attention, luckily my son didnt like Josh. I tell him everythin about his sisters when i’m pregnant, evey check up we bring him along to see his sisters in the tummy. I think it take some time to let Josh know his love from daddy mommy will share with his brothers too.

1+2 mom – Yeah.. take some time for my son to understand to all those things.

@yenlin –

how old is Josh btw?
thought he’s a little ‘unreasonable’…

Yenlin – Thanks for dropping by He is at the moment 3 years old It is expected from his age this kind of attitude.

@huisia –

oh,i get your mean as i am in you shoe…Josh is acted similarity like Jo, i think they just feel very unsecure as they are no longer a center of attraction. It takes time to adjust their attitude…wish you good luck!

huisia – Yeah, I read your post, it caught me by surprise too even though its expected.

@Gallivanter –

Ahhh, the infamous “sibling rivalry”…

Gall – You’ve got to learn all this stuff now my friend. But I guess for you, after 5 yrs, eh?

@shana –

be patience..josh will understand sooner or later…jealous la baituh gia…..:D

Shana – Thanks. confirmed jealousy. Terpaksalah bersabar …

@jacss –

oh dear papa, sounded like u & yr wife is in a bit of terrible episode now! i think it is real important to handle josh appropriately at this adjusting period. it’s kind of pity for him coz he has been having all 100% attention & concentration…………and now it has been mostly taken away if not all…….some more not one baby but TWO!
i think it’s impt to look at it from this perspective & help him out…….but sorry not a professional here to give any remedies!!

u r right, protect d twins by all means, get a help for yr wife asap while u r not around & lastly loads of GOOD LUCK !!!

jacss – Thanks. Appreciate it . He is coping well now, as long as I listen to him and not the other way round LOL.

@Julian –

I think its normal for siblings to be jealoused.. what more x2!

Julian – Yes its normal. It was expected but it happened when u least ready for it. You will know later my friend when you decided to get a brother for Raelynne

@janice –

hm.. mayb u can try explaining to Josh ler.. that he is a koko now and hv to help mommy take care of twin.. whn grow up then they can play football together ler..

Good Luck

Janice – Thanks. Already did the talking and still do till now but he still monkey around and only listen when I listened to him. LOL.

@Kay Kastum –

Wow. Must be stressful for you man. Hope things work out soon.

Kay – Thanks. I am stressful because wife and I do all the things without help from any nanny or parents. Talking about independence. Tough.

@cindy –

Alamak, poked your eyes?!

Sorry to hear about the stress life, Papa. I really hope you’ll get a maid soon. My maid in KK told me her friends all sudah ada kerja. But I’ll let you know if we find one, ok?

Cindy – Thanks Cindy for understanding. Thanks about the maid too

@Avijit Paul –

After reading your post I somehow felt that I was something like that when I was a kid. Not sure how much better now haha =p
But, pity for you.

Avijit – Hahaha. Your first confession to me. Thanks for pitying me Avijit.

@flsam –

Nobody like working weekend!! More so for you with your newborn twins. Get a maid may lessen your burden. When you children are still young, it is like that lor. Just be patience.

i have got an Award for you. Come collect at my blog. Hope this will somehow brighten your stressful days.

flsam – Actually I have friends who likes working on weekends. They said higher pay. LOL. Seriously.
I have not checked the award yet but thanks, hopefully it will brighten my stressful days.

I think I publish this replies first. Josh starts to get anxious already for my long typing. He is not sleeping yet and still want me to play his train together with him. Pulling me away now. Wait for my Part 2 replies.