Oh so touching one! This post brings my eyes open. I’m not sure if I’m ready to have my own family, maybe soon..

eshark my friend, yes it is touching isn’t it. it shows u have heart to acknowledge and feel it like me. it shows also u can be a father if u ready for it. yep, make sure you’re ready for it. If not yet, then don’t. You’ll find it tough like hell if u not ready. trust me

@Shemah –

*sigh* I am all too guilty of this. Especially with the little one around, I get too caught up in taking care of her thinking that Buddy will be able to do things by himself.. and get angry at him for things like waking up his sister when she’s sleeping and all that.

When they’re asleep, that’s when I feel it most. There was once when I scold him harshly for making Allie cry, he said, “You hate me kah?”.. I end up crying instead.

Thanks for this post PapaJ.. I found it on MamaJ’s blog.. Thanks to the both of you. You both really are superparents!

shemah, we are not superparents but thank you for saying that.
We all make mistake and that make us human. Just hope our mistake is not the big one and can be corrected. in this case, i just my son Josh did not hold grudge or revenge or whatever the words for it. I just hope he’ll be ok and tough and understand that we actually we do not meant to hurt him. Same like your buddy. Your buddy is really a matured and more smart to ask you that question. Like ours, just keep silent. sad.
Thanks to Gilbert for sharing this to me. He knows more coz he makan garam earlier than me

@jacss –

u both papa & mumy….despite saying yrselves terrible & bad…i still find u both loving!! and d photo of yr 3 kids in the cot really made me speechless…..

jacss – we missed u.. where have u been?? Ohh i see.. u went Hongkong.. the land of wah la toi as i call it.. hehehe..

3 kids in the cot.. hahaha.. Josh dont want to be left out. actually we wanna take photo on the twins only.. hahaha… iya.. so nice looking at them like that
thanks for dropping by again

When they’re asleep, that’s when I feel it most. There was once when I scold him harshly for making Allie cry, he said, “You hate me kah?”.. I end up crying instead.

Thanks for this post PapaJ.. I found it on MamaJ’s blog.. Thanks to the both of you. You both really are superparents!