As a father, I have many responsibilities to my family. Especially for the kids. Especially when they are sick.

Touchwood, I seldom got sick. Thanks to GOD for that. I believe the growing up process I gone through during my childhood, right up to now. I thank my parents for that. So now, when my kids are sick, especially the little Twins, Preston and Presley, I am really worry. You know, they are still small. Their bodies still not used to all this bacterias, viruses whatever the right terms for them. They are very active kids. They jumping here and there. They make your life miserable in term of messing up all the furniture and expensive stuffs in the house. They just could not sit still. On the other hands, you used to it and you are happy knowing they are healthy and full of energy.

BUT, seeing them just sitting down there or laying on their pillows watching their favorite cartoons without a word or a movement, you bet, I AM WORRY. Sometimes to the point of panic if they just looking at the blank space on the wall, not moving … it is like they are in “The Zone”.. you know.

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Being parents not easy. If I hear someone says easy, probably he or she is not doing their job as one. Too many maids, amahs at home. Everything is done without their intervention. Cisss. Oh yes, there are people like this .. i can even point finger at one example … but not here of course.

Anyway, that one out, now my kids’ story. It is about my Josh. The elder one who goes kindergarten. Well, there was this one day where we , yes mamaJ and I, went to fetch him from the school. Usually and always, the teacher in-charge of holding the mike will call each kid’s name by the car or transport coming in. Weird-ly, I saw he called Josh’ name but my son no where in sight. MamaJ had to go down and asked to one of the teacher about Josh.

Guess what, Josh was in detention period!!! He was to stay after everyone goes home all thanks to what he did to one girl name known as Mei Mei only. I was like what??? Read the rest of this entry »

Yes, this is just one of my dissatisfaction with people around in the world. I don’t know how am I going to start this posting but I just want to continue typing this out until I am satisfied it is really out of my system.

I really really do not agree on anyone saying that bad children = bad parents [or vice versa]. Whenever I see articles or anything regarding this matter, I totally fed up with it. I totally disagree when the children gone bad or “tidak masuk ajar” it is all because of the parents.

First of all, orang yang cakap ni parents kah?
Second, even already married, still no children, you have no right to say on all this that bad children or kids all due to or “memang pun” parents dia jahat juga or bad parents. [Sorry proper English is not the main topic here].
Thirdly, even if you are, you said you have children, are you sure you children already big enough and that your children will continue be good boy or girl because “konon” kau ajar yang terbaik sudah sama anak kau??? Do you know his or her future already? Are you sure your girl will not be the next prostitute at the neighborhood or your boy will not turn as the biggest drug dealer in town? Read the rest of this entry »

Just have to share this to everyone interested. The proper way to child caring. This is a serious matter and I hope it can help you in some way that caring for a child is not easy. In fact, nothing is easy in this world. If it’s easy, it is not worth it.

Okay, I may have sounded so serious up there. Haha. Actually I got this from a spammer. Maybe he / she thinks I may need this info. So crazily funny seeing all the images above. The one “introducing baby to pet”… Hahaha. So funny. Inside the aquarium. Crazy. The one on how to “dry the baby” – put inside the washing machine. Hahaha. Crazy crazy.
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