Yes, this is just one of my dissatisfaction with people around in the world. I don’t know how am I going to start this posting but I just want to continue typing this out until I am satisfied it is really out of my system.

I really really do not agree on anyone saying that bad children = bad parents [or vice versa]. Whenever I see articles or anything regarding this matter, I totally fed up with it. I totally disagree when the children gone bad or “tidak masuk ajar” it is all because of the parents.

First of all, orang yang cakap ni parents kah?
Second, even already married, still no children, you have no right to say on all this that bad children or kids all due to or “memang pun” parents dia jahat juga or bad parents. [Sorry proper English is not the main topic here].
Thirdly, even if you are, you said you have children, are you sure you children already big enough and that your children will continue be good boy or girl because “konon” kau ajar yang terbaik sudah sama anak kau??? Do you know his or her future already? Are you sure your girl will not be the next prostitute at the neighborhood or your boy will not turn as the biggest drug dealer in town? Read the rest of this entry »

Just have to share this to everyone interested. The proper way to child caring. This is a serious matter and I hope it can help you in some way that caring for a child is not easy. In fact, nothing is easy in this world. If it’s easy, it is not worth it.

Okay, I may have sounded so serious up there. Haha. Actually I got this from a spammer. Maybe he / she thinks I may need this info. So crazily funny seeing all the images above. The one “introducing baby to pet”… Hahaha. So funny. Inside the aquarium. Crazy. The one on how to “dry the baby” – put inside the washing machine. Hahaha. Crazy crazy.
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I can’t write much but totally not a good feeling to start the day. I just cannot get rid the teacher’s comments on my JoshLuke behaviour and is this normal to everyone?

Sigh. Only on 4th day. Sigh. I noticed one new grey hair ‘popping’ on my head. Suffocating the minority of the black. Sigh. I already imagine when my Twins’ time to go to school. I probably die young like this. Sigh.

Yes, Preston and Presley is are officially two(2) months old now. Born on 10th August, done everything at around 7:26am. So what is new with them? Do you want to know?

Well, let see:

• Presley look bigger (without measuring)
• Preston the most chubby one
• Presley look taller (without measuring)
• Presley the most “manja” with mommy. Need to hug real close, like under the arm then can sleep
• Preston always sleep with me on the right. So I have to be careful when sleeping. Sleep like a log. Cannot move one
• They both can lift up their heads already. So strong lerr. I scared so fast one. Maybe the Dumex Mamex gold effect
• Both of them always give their loudest cries at around 9pm to 12am, 2am to 3:30am, 5:30am to 7am
• Oh ya, both now constant 4oz milk and sometimes exceed to 5oz. Pengsan (fainted) my budget!
• Registered today for their babies baptism due on this 28th October at Sacred Heart Cathedral

So far, that’s all I can remember, meaning keep tab of. Till tomorrow, the first schedule babies appointment, I have no idea what are their weights. I just know they have increased in their body Armour protection. Thank GOD they are healthy. Not only that, they have increased their real assets too. With extra bottles, extra diapers, extra milk, extra towels, extra everything. Now I can see the need for the great Samsonite luggage when traveling. Hey, do not blame me. Everything extra is always good. Now if only I can enlarge my poor car so accommodate everything, that will be nice.

Hahaha, actually today is [tag]the day where wife and I expecting our babies[/tag] – The Twins! Today is September 26th 2007.

40 weeks pregnant. Oh my. Thank GOD it does not reach to this day. For the whole thing will start again. Especially the “cuci lampin” (napkin washing) and back to napkin Bazaar. I still do the washing but not so much already because after the babies one month full moon, the one month prohibition and abstinence rule can be thrown away already.

Josh and mommy playing the see-saw. Mommy just sitting there actually. Taken just less than 12 hours before delivery

Well, I am not going to turn back the clock for the thing I missed most, the RC Radio Control Offroad buggy, truggy and monster truck . At least now, wife may let me play it soon when probably on the 2nd month of the babies. Hopefully

So I guess, the twins have pity on us and decided to come out earlier than expected at [tag]33 weeks pregnant[/tag]. So once again, Thanks Preston and Presley for so being understanding and being so lovely as [tag]identical twins[/tag]. Papa so sorry because up to this day, I have problem of identifying which one is you. So Preston, if Papa call you Presley, just answer ok. Same goes to you Presley, just smile when I call you as Preston. Papa getting old already. Too much blogging probably causing my eyes sore and little bit blur blur. So sorry.

However, you twins cannot deny, I am a [tag]The Super Papa[/tag] when comes to taking care you two. Well of course mommy too. The super mom! Probably we all Superhumans after all! Aiikkk.

This is an email I just received from a close friend. I hope by spreading the words, we are at least ensured safer world to live in. Please read this till the end. This is going to be a long read but it is worth more than you think.

EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN READ IT TOO!

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line . She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I’m glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
Don’t you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz’ I didn’t see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven’t done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I’m not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That’s great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo123:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don’t want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile……GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn’t tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn’t want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn’t be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn’t look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon’s home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon’s house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.
‘Shannon, come here,’ her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn’t imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

‘Sit down,’ her father began, ‘this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.’
Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

‘Do you know who I am, Shannon?’ the man asked.

‘No,’ Shannon answered.

‘I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.’

Shannon was stunned. ‘That’s impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He’s 14. And he lives in Michigan!’

The man smiled. ‘I know I told you all that, but it wasn’t true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.’

Shannon was stunned. ‘You mean you don’t live in Michigan?’

He laughed. ‘No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn’t it?’

She nodded.

‘I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn’t as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you’ve learned a lesson from this and won’t do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?’

‘It’s a promise!’

That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.

*****NOW*****

Please send this to as many people as you can to [tag]teach them not to give any information about themselves[/tag]. This world we live in today is too dangerous to even give out your age, let alone anything else.

EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN.