Yes, this is just one of my dissatisfaction with people around in the world. I don’t know how am I going to start this posting but I just want to continue typing this out until I am satisfied it is really out of my system.

I really really do not agree on anyone saying that bad children = bad parents [or vice versa]. Whenever I see articles or anything regarding this matter, I totally fed up with it. I totally disagree when the children gone bad or “tidak masuk ajar” it is all because of the parents.

First of all, orang yang cakap ni parents kah?
Second, even already married, still no children, you have no right to say on all this that bad children or kids all due to or “memang pun” parents dia jahat juga or bad parents. [Sorry proper English is not the main topic here].
Thirdly, even if you are, you said you have children, are you sure you children already big enough and that your children will continue be good boy or girl because “konon” kau ajar yang terbaik sudah sama anak kau??? Do you know his or her future already? Are you sure your girl will not be the next prostitute at the neighborhood or your boy will not turn as the biggest drug dealer in town? Read the rest of this entry »

Yep. Nothing interesting here, anymore. I’m so tired last week and obviously wife even worse. Wife at least can update, me no mood to blog about it especially when my laptop really showing his age. Nevertheless, we survived the first week with Josh Luke goes to school!

Well that’s all lah. Sorry feed readers, sorry subscribers. Thousand apologies.

** going to fetch my son now and probably to Karamunsing too to check new version of laptop. I really need new one. I probably get Mac.. there you go!

I can’t write much but totally not a good feeling to start the day. I just cannot get rid the teacher’s comments on my JoshLuke behaviour and is this normal to everyone?

Sigh. Only on 4th day. Sigh. I noticed one new grey hair ‘popping’ on my head. Suffocating the minority of the black. Sigh. I already imagine when my Twins’ time to go to school. I probably die young like this. Sigh.

I have so many pictures and stories to tell on Josh’s first day schooling but somehow this is the only time i can write, sharing in this blog .. in 10 minutes time only. So, its definitely gonna be short.

Now only on his 3rd day schooling. Josh knows his class is upstairs already. On the two days before, wife guided him to his class but not today since both of us working already. We could not stay longer since the traffic in the school is like, you drop your kid and move out. Well, against our own will we just have to rely on Josh’s own self. Furthermore, the teachers are always there taking the kid out of the car and ushering them to their respected classes. We managed to hold a few cars behind so we can see whether Josh know where his class is. We managed to peek he went up the stairs on his own. He even walked slowly passing the other bigger kids’ classes and peeked on them.

We were so nervous, especially me. I wanted to ask wife go down and check on him but I hold on to my thoughts. This is the time to let him go on his own. Yeah, easy to say but that is not what I felt at that time and currently, still I feel like that. Hey, my elder son, my proud one. Of course I am nervous. Now you know how much I love this kid. Like he cries I cry too.

OK time out. Need to fetch him already. See, no time. Will follow up this afterward. First day and second day stories need to blog and pictures again. Aiiyaaaaahh where’s the time.

Yep, my son Josh Luke finally decided it is best to go to school than just staying at home looking at his twin brothers happily chewing their pacifiers. my Josh Luke got so fed up looking at everyone, his cousins, his Che Che (sister), his Koh Koh(brother) all going to school and leaving him behind. He got so jealous, he finally asked us to ‘make him’ go to school. Yeah, so many “go to school” words here. Don’t you just love me for that?

He is just turned 4 years old recently. Remember the Josh 4 years old AirAsia Birthday Cake? Well, that’s 4 years old for him. We are actually holding him going to school until he reach that age. For me, anything early than that is just not right for him. He is just not ready. For me, I want him to really enjoy his young age with no rules, just play. However, since he is already 4 years and he already wise enough to ask us to go to school, we just follow. See, he’s matured enough to ask for it without us forcing him. So I believe, we make the right decision for him.

OK enough of that. Pictures time below taken last week on his first exposure to school environment. Warning, lotsa pictures down here. Read the rest of this entry »

A little boy goes to his father and asks “Papa, how was I born?”

The father answers: “Well son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway! Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo . Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe. We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive . As soon as I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall, and since it was too late to hit the delete button, nine months later a little Pop-Up appeared that said:

‘You got Male!’”

Fainted. Like that also can. There are so many people out there, so creative, got so much time to think such sentences.
So, parents or anyone, how do you explain to your kids? is this applicable?

Yes, I love him, my son and not other Josh in the world. He is my son Josh Luke Joneh. To other Josh in the world, thanks for visiting here. You must be wondering what this guy talking about right?

Well, I just have to make a record in this blog that I love him. So next time, I never know, maybe he decided to peek at his Papa’s blog and search on his name, he will find this and know that I love him very much after all. Maybe he will cry or maybe he will curse me for exposing everything. Hahaha.

Anyway, as some of you know, that I always work on weekends. yes, on Saturday and Sunday. Only once in a month I have the pleasure to be at home during weekends. I hate it and I am sure my Josh hate it too.

So recently I just found out and I took picture of it. I just realized that he is always there in front of the door, ready to open the door for me. How stupid of me for not appreciating him with such gesture or action. He is always there to greet me home!

See here. I was not even out of the car and in a hurry took out my camera and just snap right through the car window. Oh Josh, you make Papa in tears. Thank you for being there … greeting me all the times. In my memory, I always thought my wife is the one opening the door, waiting behind the grill. Now I realize she is always with the twins, caring them while Josh is the one greeting me.

So to my son Josh Luke, I, Joneh, your Papa, father and friend, want to say out loud here,

I LOVE YOU AND I THANK YOU GOD FOR BEING MY SON AND FRIEND TOO. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. THANK YOU, JOSH LUKE.

*** psst. Wanna hear true story about josh, go here scary but true!

I need to jot down this before I forgot, again. It should be a short one for the blog record. I am not sure how I feel now as at 9am today whether to be happy or sad. I know back at 4am right up to 6am, I was so happy. I felt happy simply because I was awaken with the nicest feeling of love all around me.

Presley ( I think so its him) on my left under my hand with his small leg tried to wrap around my belly and my elder Josh on my right hugging with his right hand and leg around me too – snoring at the same I was wrapped in between and could not move. I could not help but to smile and Praise GOD for giving me such wonderful kids. Praise The Lord. I want this feeling to last forever … Read the rest of this entry »